We parents always wants that our children will be grow up become a good person. Its not possible to become a good person by one day and we can’t expect it. Most of the parents say it will be okay when child will be adult. Is this word really true?
“Future outcomes of sapling depends on how you growing them now” I will surely say this type of word no one say before. Though children’s this kind of behavior is automatically correct.
Parents should give attention on children’s small and smaller portion of behavior and balance of growing up pattern so that you can make your child become a good person from childhood.
Everyone know that no child becomes good or bad by born. Our children will be good person or bad person it depends on their surroundings hoop, it’s our responsibility to take care of these. Our senior’s duty is standing up by their side like shadow and gives directions which will assist them to expose compassionate and respect to others, this will help them to become very careful and responsible in their first stage of life.
1. Show respect to others:
When someone is talking, its basic norms to listen their words with importance, doesn’t matter speaker is child or adult. If we give importance on others talk in front of children and they will learn the same thing of giving importance. Sometimes when a person gives comment on specific matter, we can show respect by hearing their words carefully. If children practice this type of habit daily by us, one day respectability will fully grow upon them.
“Respect to elders and love to younger’s” from childhood we learn it.
When you will practice this kind of good work you’re little will doubtfully learn from you. It’s natural sometimes your perception will not match with others that don’t mean you have to do disrespectful work. You never ever do this kind of work in front of your child. Always keep remember that your child will learn respect/disrespect by this way. Don’t do worse behavior without any reason with your house keeper or maid, do proper behave with them it also helps to increase respect in mind of your child and bring behavioral changes.
2. Help to each other:
In school when someone falls in time of play other friends laugh at him/her. But no one give attention on injured person. But this is the not right moment to laugh at him/her, ours responsibility is help him/her and it’s our seniors responsibility to teach our child this type of norm. May be teachers or parents will play a great role in this matter.
“Many a little makes a mickle” these proverbs will crystal clear to your child when you work out on real.
When a old person is unable to cross the road, we seniors can help him to cross the road, from this our children will learn how to help others if possible they will do the same thing in future.
3. Show empathy:
In social life presence of empathy is very important. Without empathy it is impossible to survive with social life. Different problem and helpless people want empathy from others.
Mahatma Gandhi said that- if you try to find yourself, you can find yourself by helping others.
Like, in birthday party we do excessive hubbub, play music in loud speaker. But in the other side if old or unwell person live beside our house we should show empathy to them by less the volume of speaker. If possible we should avoid this completely.
4. Give respect to your child decision:
One children may say that he wants to be street hawker because he loves street food a lot. He thought if he became street hawker he can also take it freely. But parents never, ever take it easily. It’s very normal. Let it be on them. Just think when you are at their age what you wants to be. But now where is your position? If you give priority on your child’s thought, at the end he will give priority on your say.
The best way to make children good is to make them happy.Oscar Wilde
Today’s children are future successor of the nation. We seniors are always wants that our children’s will grow up with good humanity. The first step of humanity is sympathy. By passing this step, gradually they will go on the path of other human virtues. And in this way we can sow the seeds of development of right human qualities among our children. At the end of the day when that seed will become a vigorous tree it will be our worth.
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